Emily and Charlotte discover their new favorite ways to woo men: crying softly in the corner or getting a sunburn, and all the ways to make the patriarchy work for you. We try to define “simple, wholesome flirting” (which we figure out just means lying to men - our favorite!) and learn that Elaina would not have thrived in this era. We learn the 1920s were not about being fun or friendly, but the 1940s were…don’t worry, we’re confused too. Josephus and his oddly specific thoughts on women’s underwear. Having a chaperone on your date may sound out of touch, but it’s more common than you think! We also check in with our friend Mr. Then, we reminisce on the good old days (besides the racism, sexism, homophobia, xenophobia…) where dating was easy! Emily shares some dating tips from back in the day to see if they still hold up. We’re officially officially back from our summer break, so we start off the episode with all of our life updates from the past few months. All this and more on Babes and Bad Decisions! By the way, anyone who knows what the real Kinder/Kinge/Kumble is, you can direct your messages to the Babes’ email account. Finally, Charlotte’s game takes an interesting turn involving carrots, pegging, and an acid trip gone wrong. The Babes talk about our different kinks, including those not on the test, as well exploring how reading has really opened Emily and Elaina’s eyes to some potential new interests. The kink community has its own culture, so it’s important to research before joining the community. Kinks are all about elevating your sexual experience, so things like fear and adrenaline can enhance your arousal and your play. They have the power to set the boundaries while dominant party has the opportunity to play within those set limits. Contrary to what you might think, the submissive party actually holds all the power in BDSM relationships. Exploring kinks can be fun, and doing it with someone you feel safe and comfortable with makes it all the better. They aren’t for everyone and are built on complete trust, so make sure you and your partner(s) are educated before exploring these types of relationships. Disclaimer: any healthy relationship is all about willing, enthusiastic, and continuous consent, and BDSM relationships are no different. This week, the Babes took the infamous BDSM test and explored our kinks (drink every time Emily says “f*ck it up). Our goal this week was to make Charlotte as uncomfortable as possible and I think we achieved that.
❤️” All this and more on Babes and Bad Decisions! Whether you’re getting into plants like Charlotte, witchy things like Emily, or are an “it girl” like Emily’s roommate, self care is necessary! And remember, GO TO THERAPY! Finally, Charlotte leaves us with some words of wisdom: “If you’re depressed, no you’re not. When you’re post-grad, structure is super important. Focus on the life you want first, then choose a career that will allow you to live that life. The stigma of moving home after college can leave people with feelings of guilt, but post-grad looks different for everyone. Charlotte might be going brunette, and if you own an empty house in New York let her know! We wish someone would’ve given us this advice before we graduated, so we’re passing it on to you. The Babes discuss the differences between moving back to your hometown and moving HOME, along with all the craziness that comes with being back where you’re from.
All this and more on Babes and Bad Decisions!Ĭharlotte is back, vaxxed, and needs to get a wax! And if you’re one of her coworkers, welcome! Emily sets the scene this week on a topic she’s waited two years to talk about - post-graduate life. Take a sip of water every time we say “flaw” (stay hydrated, Babes), and maybe keep a glass of wine nearby too. And remember to only share your concerns if you have their best interests in mind.
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The Babes get into when it’s time to have that talk with your friend and how to have a healthy version of that conversation. Would you want to know your fatal flaw? Well we sure do! Elaina drops a truth bomb and we air our friendship dirty laundry (seriously, we really hash out the trauma this week). Fatal flaws leave you feeling emotionally drained, and if that person is not actively working on improving themselves, then it may be time to end the friendship. This week we’ve been inspired by the lovely Tinx on Tik Tok and her theory on “Fatal Friendship Flaws.” Everyone has flaws (some more than others), and when looking at a friendship there comes a time where you have to decide if you accept the flaw and keep the friendship or you let that person go.
Welcome back to Babes and Bad Decisions where Charlotte is pressed and women’s sizing is bullsh*t.